Do NOT risk getting this permanent disease unless you are positive you are going to have a long, meaningful relationship with this person. There is no point in you taking a chance with someone you don't even know you'll be with. Like someone said, LOOK OUT FOR #1!!! You do NOT have to feel guilty about this behavior. It was her fault she made a mistake in her past... It is clear she is a good person, especially because she was honest with you, but still, feel no pressure to do anything risky. If you're really nice, you can go with Hal and try to help her in any other nonphysical ways. But if it was me, I would reduce the situation to a nonsexual relationship all together. Unless, of course, you just discovered she is your one true love.
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