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Originally posted by maleficent
If your existing doctor won't honor your choice, or thinks that you'll change your mind, find another doctor that will listen to you.
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Ditto on that one. Despite any one elses opinions on your choice as long as it's your choice and you are sure of it your Dr should be willing to work with you. It's none of his business ot try to change your mind. That irritates me that someone would presume that they know your mind better than you.
I personally have wanted to work with children. I've always known that it was my nitch, my career. So having a child was natural to me. On the other hand I'm satisfied with my one daughter and don't want more. Now that she is 4, I am beginning to get questions from family and friends about when the next one is coming. Hubby and I agree and we are satisfied. That's what we tell people but they always seem puzzled by it. We both come from a background where many of our friends' families have 4,5,6 or more children. But many of them struggled to support that size family. A conscious choice is a more responsible parenting attitude. Even if it means that you choose not to concieve, it's still a "parenting" choice. It's YOUR choice.
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