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I'm 25 and I have no desire to have children, my husband feels the same way. Because we are so young I recognize that our feelings may change so we have not gone for the vasectomy yet. We made our decision for lots of reasons. One because of my lack of motherly desire, our feelings that we would not be the parents we would want to be (we both yell when we get mad/frustrated for one), and population growth. We are both believers in zero population growth and there are so many people having so many children us not having any helps in a very, very small way make up for all those extras. I also have a lot of trouble bringing a child into the world when there are so many children without parents. So, if we do decide we want a child in our lives it will be by adoption.
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