maleficent

Good for you on your choice, it's a choice to have children, it's a choice to not have them, people have to do what's right for them, and not having children is right for you.

My brother, at age 22, had a vasectomy, because he decided, he never wanted to bring a child into this world, and since he wasn't going to become celibate, he didn't want to be responsbile for any birth control failures. Took him 4 doctors to find one that would do it and one doctor wanted to send him to counselling. The last doctor, and older guy, understood his reasons, and performed the procedure. He's been married 7 years and he and his wife have a great life, they aren't missing children.

If your existing doctor won't honor your choice, or thinks that you'll change your mind, find another doctor that will listen to you.

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