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amonkie · 08-09-2004, 04:09 PM

You may not like hearing this, but it may be time to get a new group of friends. If she's not returning your feelings, then you need a find a way where she's not occupying your mind 24/7 because you're interacting with her. Yes, you have mutual friends, and it sucks when relationships affect more than just the two of you, but you need to think about keeping yourself mentally healthy, as well. Finding and meeting new people (NOT just "a couple of girls") that have similiar interests will give you a way to fill the space she has in your life, but also give you a place to go so you don't feel like you're hanging out with her and the group because they're your only friends.

08-09-2004, 04:09 PM	#14 (permalink)
amonkie Drifting Administrator Location: Windy City	You may not like hearing this, but it may be time to get a new group of friends. If she's not returning your feelings, then you need a find a way where she's not occupying your mind 24/7 because you're interacting with her. Yes, you have mutual friends, and it sucks when relationships affect more than just the two of you, but you need to think about keeping yourself mentally healthy, as well. Finding and meeting new people (NOT just "a couple of girls") that have similiar interests will give you a way to fill the space she has in your life, but also give you a place to go so you don't feel like you're hanging out with her and the group because they're your only friends. __________________ Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna Last edited by amonkie; 08-11-2004 at 12:13 AM..