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Originally posted by Trisk
I really don't agree with this. There is such a double standard in our society about this. A woman can kiss another girl, grope another girl and even go down on another girl and be completely straight if she's just "experimenting sexually". But the second a guy wants to experiment sexually, they're gay.
There is a thread about this called "Sexual Preferences" in the Ladies Lounge. A lot of girls say that they *do* want to go down on another girl but they're only interested in the sexual act. To be bisexual, for most women, it seems that you have to be interested in a relationship aspect or have romantic feelings for other girls.
Why can't men go by the same standard? I know not all guys are blind to other men's looks and I doubt that 90% of guys are repulsed by the body of another man. Saying that you'd be interested in something like that anonymously in an online community won't make your dick shrink 
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It's not a "double standard" as you call it, it's an inherent difference in men and women. It frustrates me to no end that some people desperately must make men and women exactly the same. Reality is that women are more fluid in their sexuality and can have same-sex relationships yet be genuinely heterosexual. This is rarely true for males as sexual orientation is quite polarized. And the catch-all response of "Society! Society! Society!" is not satisfactory. Since when did nature fall by the wayside so much? Sexuality is not quite the tabula rasa that the mind is from birth.