I first signed up because my friend directed me to a certain thread he was participating in. To be honest, I wasn't expecting much....but within a few days, the community had grown on me. I love that I have a place where I can say what I really think or ask the questions I've been dying to ask without being torn apart. People here aren't going to make fun of you for your beliefs, your experiences, your inexperience etc. This is something I rarely see in an online community.
I like that people here are always questioning things - asking things I would have never thought to ask or making me rethink things I thought I had a clear-cut position on. I've learned things from people here and I believe I've actually changed in the way I think about men, women, and myself.
I've found myself noticing the little things men do/say more since I came here, I feel I've become less naive, more accepting and more more adventerous in the bedroom (and sometimes in other places
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Anyway...yeah...I think this is a great community and I'm glad I found it