I've heard the "she has to carry it for 9 months" argument. I don't buy it. Barring health concerns, if the man is going to assume custody afterwards, and the woman will have no obligation toward the child, 9 months is hardly comparable to raising the child for the rest of your life, even if it is inside you for those 9 months.
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