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I would like my GF (fiancee actually) to take my name when we get married, but its not an issue for me if she does not want to. If she wants to keep her name its fine.
Luckily for me she wants to take my name, and she wants to get rid of her old one - bad family stuff - so its all good. She likes the idea of her taking my last name, and I like it too so we're both happy about it.
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Do not confuse altruism with kindness, good will or respect for the rights of others. These are not primaries, but consequences, which, in fact, altruism makes impossible. The irreducible primary of altruism, the basic absolute, is self-sacrifice - which means: self-immolation, self-abnegation, self-denial, self-destruction - which means: the self as a standard of evil, the selfless as a standard of the good.
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