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I am on the other side of this at the moment. I am the one who cheated. From my experience I would say that if you believe that she loves you and made a mistake, take her back, but only on the condition that she knows why she allowed herself to be in that position, and allowed it to happen. Make sure she knows that you will not tolerate it again. I know that shit happens and sometimes people get put into a situation that they didn't want to be in or were mislead from the begining (my case). I feel that a person can truly and deeply love someone. They may have just made a large mistake. Learn to trust her again. Believe her when she says it's over between her and this other guy unless you have real reason not to. Assure her you are there for whatever she may need. But this is most important. Make sure she knows herself and what she wants. That's where I know I messed up. Alot of crap happens in life at the college age. The only thing you can do is know yourself before you can give that to someone else.
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