Even though you've tried some things, clearly they haven't been the right things; and even though the pill can dampen libido, it sounds like she may not have been into sex all that much to start with. I am with whoever suggested talking to her about it - find out what turns her on, or if nothing does, why she isn't willing/eager to be turned on. If you make it clear that it's not just that you are horny and desperate, but that you want to share this with her and have her really enjoy sex as a part of your marriage, maybe she would be willing to open up a bit and share with you. Good luck!
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