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Cheat means breaking a commitment made mutually. Well, you aren't married. Are you sure you had a committed relationship, or were you just "hanging" together when you were in the same town?
There's an old saying: "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." That's true for a week or two, and then it makes the heart heal and move on. You two spend months apart, and a few weeks a year together. What kind of relationship is that?
If you want to bond, get together. Either marry or at least find a way to live near one another and date steadily. If you aren't doing that, then love one another without commitment, and recognize that there is no cheating, 'cause there is no commitment to fidelity.
Some of the folks who blog here regularly have no commitment to fidelity marriages. They still seem to love one another. I wonder if your sense of being cheated on comes from a need to feel in control of her love for you?
Examine your deeper feelings, and you'll learn a lot. When you choose to enter a commited relationship, then don't move apart. OK????
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Trueheart
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