thed00t

Bleh, that outlook is not cool.

If you're with someone for a long time, and you're STILL asking then, ok maybe that's a problem, but otherwise, you should be happy the guy just didn't roll over and didn't care wether you got yours. Ladies, now if you're living together or married... I tend to agree that the issue should have already come up and the guy should know... otherwise:

Sometimes it's not exactly obvious that the girl has an orgasm. I dated a girl for a while that wasn't a moaner and she would basically just shut her eyes and hold her breath without even a whimper. She swore she was having mind numbing orgasms and that she occasionally would almost black out. When we first started, I had no idea whether she was or wasn't, until I knew her better. Of course I asked, becuase I cared. Another girl I've dated made so much noise and moaned so often, it was hard to tell which one was the one!

Girls ALWAYS complain about lack of communication in the bedroom, well it's because of pretenses like this that say the man should automatically know exactly how to please you and if they don't, well "Darlin' if you have to ask...."

Basically, I'm sorry, but if you don't get off in an obvious manner (I.E. noise of some type that is different or more intense than the OTHER noises you make) then you'll need to excuse the guys asking for at least a while. And you should be friggin happy the guy is 1. concerned enough to ask 2. has the courage to ask because 3. if you didn't, that means he wanted you to, and will do what it takes to get you there HINT HINT HINT.

This is a pretty long winded rant about one simple question, but jeeze, it's annoying to see such a two-faced approach to the issue. Communication in the bedroom is a GOOD thing (tm).