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Originally posted by maleficent
16 is not the magic age when all girls/women are ready for sexual situations. It doesn't mean that she's got any issues at all.
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I'm not saying that there's a magic halo around 16 - I was using it as an example of maturity. I do truly believe that once a person reaches a decent age (somewhere near the cusp of adulthood), that they need to get over the whole "omg i can't let him touch me or else that means i'm a slut!!1one" or the "he wants to put his hands WHERE?! that's icky and i'm not ready for it!!11" stage. If she isn't comfortable with A) herself and her body and B) you touching that body, then this relationship has defineable problems.
Just a thought, but maybe you should work on those, first...