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Average_Joe · 07-30-2004, 12:42 PM

Tell us what's bothering you....we can tell if there's a problem, but we are really shitty at guessing.

If something someone else did makes you angry, don't transfer it on us. Don't say "I'm mad at you", act angry at us, and then tell us that your boss yelled at you at work 24 hours later. We will comfort you if we know what happened.

Understand that guys like to fix problems. If you only are looking for sympathy for something that can be fixed or corrected, don't get mad at us for the lack of sympathy. Talk to your mother or girlfriends if that's what you need.

Make a decision and stick to it.
Friday: "let's go bowling tomorrow".
Saturday: " I don't want to go bowling. What do you want to do?"
"How about a movie?"
"Nah."
"How about the beach?"
"Naaah."
"How about dinner? Dancing? See a band? Ice skating? Milking a cow?"
"No. No. No. Maybe...well, no."
Two hours after arguing and getting angry, we go bowling and she has a great time!
AAAAHHHHHHHGGGGGGGGGG!

We love you and we just want to make you happy! It's more important than our own happiness!

When we are quiet we are not contemplating our relationship or love for you. We are concerned about men stuff like needing an engine overhaul or that basket we missed in the YMCA finals.

Thanks for letting me rant.

07-30-2004, 12:42 PM	#40 (permalink)
Average_Joe Psycho Location: Under the Radar	Tell us what's bothering you....we can tell if there's a problem, but we are really shitty at guessing. If something someone else did makes you angry, don't transfer it on us. Don't say "I'm mad at you", act angry at us, and then tell us that your boss yelled at you at work 24 hours later. We will comfort you if we know what happened. Understand that guys like to fix problems. If you only are looking for sympathy for something that can be fixed or corrected, don't get mad at us for the lack of sympathy. Talk to your mother or girlfriends if that's what you need. Make a decision and stick to it. Friday: "let's go bowling tomorrow". Saturday: " I don't want to go bowling. What do you want to do?" "How about a movie?" "Nah." "How about the beach?" "Naaah." "How about dinner? Dancing? See a band? Ice skating? Milking a cow?" "No. No. No. Maybe...well, no." Two hours after arguing and getting angry, we go bowling and she has a great time! AAAAHHHHHHHGGGGGGGGGG! We love you and we just want to make you happy! It's more important than our own happiness! When we are quiet we are not contemplating our relationship or love for you. We are concerned about men stuff like needing an engine overhaul or that basket we missed in the YMCA finals. Thanks for letting me rant. __________________ I think I'll procrastinate......in a little while.