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Mantus · 07-29-2004, 03:41 PM

ManWithAPlan,

Not really sure what you mean by that. Do you want your girl to have just one friend in the whole world? You.

Prince,

The ladder theory is a very good guideline to relationships. Knowing it you should be aware that the most common type of male friend for a girl is an intellectual whore. They are on the other ladder and chances are that they will never get across. Generally the longer one knows a girl the harder it is to jump ladders. While they may drill holes in your relationship they will never get in bed with her. She will not leave you for them, but they may destabilize a relationship.

To avoid this, get to know her friends and make sure that you are her best friend.

Your major competitor some random guy she is aware off and finds fuckable; some one who she hasn’t had too much contact with but just enough to have some fun with.

Finally and this has been bothering me in thread for a while now. Why are the guys here leaving the girls out of the decision making process on whether she will have sex with another guy or not? Women have minds. They don’t just drop their panties every time a guy makes a move on them. For example, Prince, here you are saying that you trust yourself not to jump another woman but yet you don’t trust your wife stay turn down the advances of another man? C’mon now.

That’s where the trust has to be. A guy does his best to keep the relationship smooth. Now the guy has to trust his girl to love him and be faithful. If he cannot trust his girl to turn down another guy's advances then why the hell is he going though all this trouble for her in the first place?

07-29-2004, 03:41 PM	#115 (permalink)
Mantus lascivious	ManWithAPlan, Not really sure what you mean by that. Do you want your girl to have just one friend in the whole world? You. Prince, The ladder theory is a very good guideline to relationships. Knowing it you should be aware that the most common type of male friend for a girl is an intellectual whore. They are on the other ladder and chances are that they will never get across. Generally the longer one knows a girl the harder it is to jump ladders. While they may drill holes in your relationship they will never get in bed with her. She will not leave you for them, but they may destabilize a relationship. To avoid this, get to know her friends and make sure that you are her best friend. Your major competitor some random guy she is aware off and finds fuckable; some one who she hasn’t had too much contact with but just enough to have some fun with. Finally and this has been bothering me in thread for a while now. Why are the guys here leaving the girls out of the decision making process on whether she will have sex with another guy or not? Women have minds. They don’t just drop their panties every time a guy makes a move on them. For example, Prince, here you are saying that you trust yourself not to jump another woman but yet you don’t trust your wife stay turn down the advances of another man? C’mon now. That’s where the trust has to be. A guy does his best to keep the relationship smooth. Now the guy has to trust his girl to love him and be faithful. If he cannot trust his girl to turn down another guy's advances then why the hell is he going though all this trouble for her in the first place? Last edited by Mantus; 07-29-2004 at 03:45 PM..