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Devils advocate (if not already been said)
I was with someone who came home every weekend and then when she was commuting I went home every weekend for three of my four years of college. While I do not regret the decisions made or the time spent, looking back (we are now not together) there were many things that I did not participate in that I would have really enjoyed. There are people I could have been better friends with that I didn't. I could go on, but I think you get the point.
I do not regret my first three years of college but I know that if we had not been together it would have been much different. Now that we are not together it was hard to make good friends in my final year when most of them had friends from the previous three/four years.
Keep not only the benefits of your relationship and what you love about it in mind but also what would happen if/when you break up.
You will be in a completely different enviroment then she is, and there will be a lot of tension. I wish you luck and feel free to PM me if you want to discuss it further.
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Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it.
--Mark Twain
Do What makes you happy
--Me
BUT!
"Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu
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