VaultBoy you touch on something interesting that I have noticed here on this forum. The man's say in the relationship is completely disregarded by many of the women here, who are quite on the feminist side some of them, and any attempt of any man to havy any say is seen as an effort by him to control and own the woman like an object.
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Do not confuse altruism with kindness, good will or respect for the rights of others. These are not primaries, but consequences, which, in fact, altruism makes impossible. The irreducible primary of altruism, the basic absolute, is self-sacrifice - which means: self-immolation, self-abnegation, self-denial, self-destruction - which means: the self as a standard of evil, the selfless as a standard of the good.
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