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Originally posted by Fallon
And I have read the whole thread and it looks like more and more of guys saying that since sex is going to be the only reason for a relationship with a female, females in a relationship shouldn't have guy friends when I don't believe that's the case.
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No, what's being said that SO's in a commited relationship shouldn't be going on dates or date-like scenarios with their male friends, (given whatever reasons vatrious posters have supplied) . People don't exist in a vacuum. Of course women would still have friends outside the relationship, but it is being argued that the nature of those relationships should be changed to a degree that satisfies
both partners.
Just to through the cat amongst the pidgeons, I ask this:
Lets say that if a male friend knows about a conflict such as this, shouldn't he out of his own start to scale down contact with the female party, esppecially since he knows that she's in a relationship she values? If he doesn't, what are his motives?