Good points VaultBoy - Us South Africans seem to know all the answers 
Men do not approach women for friendship. If your GF has male friends, chances are they had a sexual attraction to her at some point. And that makes most BFs skin crawl.
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Do not confuse altruism with kindness, good will or respect for the rights of others. These are not primaries, but consequences, which, in fact, altruism makes impossible. The irreducible primary of altruism, the basic absolute, is self-sacrifice - which means: self-immolation, self-abnegation, self-denial, self-destruction - which means: the self as a standard of evil, the selfless as a standard of the good.
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