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Originally posted by ManWithAPlan
wil, it's hard to "decide what a date is" because you can't be like "so yeah, no dinner with other guys/girls... no movies with other guys/girls..."
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I don't think so... not in my relationship. The key is just to be up front. There are going to be girls that want to hang out with me and guys that want to hang out with my girlfriend. The important thing for us is to establish boundaries. Everyone knows that I'm in a relationship and that she's in a relationship. If I'm going to go to a movie with someone that's a friend and happens to be a girl I'm going to tell my girlfriend about that first. First thing when I get home I'm going to tell her what happened. Just like I want to know first thing what happened when she does things with her friends. I let her know the kinds of things that make me jealous, and she lets me know what bothers her. If you don't talk about any of these things then you'll have a vacuum in the relationship. If you can't talk about these things then you have a communication or a trust problem.