you didnt strike me the wrong way lol ...I just sometimes have hard explaining how I think, and I get frustrated. I think in my initial post I said something like "couples do not have to do everything with their friends like they are siamese twins" My friendships...the ones I hold most dear, to be honest are with guys because I dont get along with women in a true friendship kind of way...and they always will be.
In my case there is no way I would be with an SO that would expect other wise. But...thats ME and MY situation and I realize its not going to apply to everyone. In my eyes someone who loves me would not want me to discard people regardless of their sex.
now......Im not at all advocating someones chick hanging out all hours of the day or nite with some one that their significant other doesnt know, going out of town with them or anything like that. I believe the initial poster said something about going to lunch with someone he didnt know...to me thats totally different.
thank you for your well wishes
