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ShaniFaye · 07-28-2004, 09:44 AM

ok I must have missed where you asked me that

The feelings or potentential of future feelings is what constitutes it a date, IMO. If I am in a committed relationship and I go out to dinner and movies with a male friend that I have been hanging out with for 18 years and there is NO, for lack of a better word at the moment...romantic involvement/intentions, it is friends hanging out...its not a date...it doesnt matter if I meet him for breakfast at IHOP at 9 am or at waffle house at 11 pm

Friendly, unromantic events aren't "dates" just because a man and a woman attend them together

Also....a lot of times, I know its not ALWAYS the case...but a DATE usually implies ONE person paying for both people

07-28-2004, 09:44 AM	#83 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	ok I must have missed where you asked me that The feelings or potentential of future feelings is what constitutes it a date, IMO. If I am in a committed relationship and I go out to dinner and movies with a male friend that I have been hanging out with for 18 years and there is NO, for lack of a better word at the moment...romantic involvement/intentions, it is friends hanging out...its not a date...it doesnt matter if I meet him for breakfast at IHOP at 9 am or at waffle house at 11 pm Friendly, unromantic events aren't "dates" just because a man and a woman attend them together Also....a lot of times, I know its not ALWAYS the case...but a DATE usually implies ONE person paying for both people __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!* Last edited by ShaniFaye; 07-28-2004 at 09:49 AM..