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Not all friendships last forever. Not all of them should, even. A friendship of fifteen years is an admirable achievement, if you ask me.
I doubt you are going to find closure to this one through anything else other than moving on and letting go. It is quite likely, I think, that if you were to bring this up with your "friend", he wouldn't know what you'd be talking about, or why you would seem so upset about it. "Geez man, I called and congratulated you on your wedding, wha' more do you want?"
Some people just are wired that way. They throw something significant away in the blink of an eye, and don't even know why.
It doesn't seem like you blame yourself. It seems as if you blame him. Why not settle for that? Under the circumstances described by you in your posts, that seems like the best closure you're going to find, anyway.
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