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Originally posted by la petite moi
I know I'm going to get flamed for this, but I think something is wrong with your girlfriend and her best friend. If your girlfriend really believes in monogamy, she would not let herself do that.
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Well, evidently, in some circumstances, she doesn't believe in monogamy. I'm with you about that. Where you and I part ways is when you conclude "there's something wrong with her."
There's monogamy like an empowering and enriching way to relate to a relationship. And then there's monogamy like a straightjacket that prevents you from trying things you might want to try. I'm all for the former, and all against the latter.
lurkette and I are not sexually monogamous, but we are each others' primary lifetime partner. Neither of us would ever
think of doing something without the other knowing.
Sounds like she unleashed a wild side you didn't know about, saut! As long as you're ok with that, and the two of you can create boundaries that you're both comfortable with, it sounds like you're in for a ride!