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It's amazing the variance of opinion in this thread so far. It never ceases to amaze me HOW different each of us are.
Having been a guy in your situation before I would say the following:
Male vs. Female Gyno... dude, let her decide. If she wants a female, then great... if she wants a male or doesn't care, it isn't up to you. Gynocologists see dozens of women every day. She doesn't have anything they haven't seen before. *shrug* If you're THAT jealous (i've been there myself, so I speak from experience) your insecurity needs some serious help. Talk with your gf about THAT... honestly!
As for going in with her, that's up to her as well, and then to you. Confidentiality only applies to the doctor doling out info. If you're THERE, it means nothing confidentiality-wise. As for her honesty... I'm shocked females would respond as I've seen. If she can't talk to you about her cycle, there are some communication issues. Things like that are just part of who you are. If it's too "gross" or "embarassing" then one or both of you need to mature a little bit. (No, Phenomenon, I know you didn't say that... just making the point). There's nothing I can't talk about in front of my wife, and nothing as far as I know that she can't in front of me. Health and nature are just part of who we are, male or female...
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