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Originally posted by maleficent
It doesn't sound like you do trust your girlfriend...
College is the time of your life.. why be tied down to the girl back home... You're still so young -- why make the "rest of your life" decision now? Have fun - enjoy yourself and whatever happens -- happens between the both of you.
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I'm sorry, I just don't agree with that, because I'm one of these people who is of the opinion that it isn't worth wasting what seems like a for sure thing for a little fun, or for a "could be" thing. I'm also a settled-down type of guy. If we broke up, I guarantee you I'd just have another serious girlfriend in Knoxville, but there's no way she could treat me as good as my current girlfriend. No possible way.
Cause I've had long term relationships before, so I don't view this as a first time naivety thing. I've been in relationships were I thought I was so happy and in love, and now that I'm with my girlfriend, I realize that ALL of those relationships were total shit. That HAS to count for something.
la petite moi, your post is what I was hoping to receive when I made this thread. Thank you so much. That really reassures me, but don't worry about sex being a problem, it won't be. I'm not a cheater, never have been, never will be. There's nothing I value more than honesty and loyalty. So no matter if we can't have sex for a year, I'll be faithful(and yes, I know I will, because I've actually
done it, I went with a virgin for a year, and never had sex, and yes, I had had sex prior to that relationship.)And please no one say, "Yes, but will she?" Because don't get me wrong, if SHE wants it, then it'll happen.
And for all of you who don't think I trust her, I do. I'm just a "just-in-case" person, no matter the subject matter. I've had that backup plan since we started going out, and no, I didn't trust her then. But I've grown to, completely.