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Tell her what you want. She'll either hear you or she won't.
If she hears you, she'll either believe you or she won't.
If she believes you, she'll either act on it or she won't.
If she acts on it, it will either have an effect on how she procedes with this guy or it won't.
That's a lot of rope to push uphill. Chances are it will fail at the first gate, but you have to tell her what you have to say. Then it's up to her. So tell her, then back way off and let her decide.
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