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How the hell am I going to do this? (relationship advice)
I'm in a long term relationship with a girl a year younger than me. I'm going to college in about two weeks. I have to leave her. It's gonna kill me, but she's going to be even worse.
Now I'm not so far away that I can't come back, I'll be back as much as I possibly can, but do you TFP'ers honestly think we can pull this off? Cause I think if we survive the long distance thing without incident, I'll probably propose, cause I can't see anything else stopping us if this doesn't. But that's still a long way and I'm not considering marriage right now. Just tell me what you honest-to-God think guys, can we do this?
Side note: I do trust her, but I like to cover my bases, so as far as infidelity goes, I'm not worried. I live in a small town where everyone knows each other's business. You really have to live here to understand, I'm serious, you cannot do anything of any relevance without the entire town knowing. So she's going to be here, along with my little sister and her friends, some of the town's most infamous gossipers. And three of my friends will still be here. Point being, if she fucks around, I WILL KNOW. So I'm not worried about that.
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