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Originally posted by hobo
. I would like this too, but I have been taking things really slow. I think this is because I am a bit afraid of the changes in my life that such a relationship could cause. .
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Nothing wrong at all with going slow... and change doesn't have to be bad or scarey, changes could be a positive thing for you.
It seems you both are interested in the same thing, and are both taking the same approach to the relationship. Talking to each other about what you both want out of the relationship, rather than the neutral third party, is the first step to building a relationship.
Keep the conversation casual. No pressure on either of you, becuase to be honest, she may not exactly know what she wants from you -- maybe start with telling her what you want with her...