Menoman,
I agree with what you posted. What I am afraid off is that people will look at it and come to the conclusion that if a guy and a girl get together they will automatically fuck. That’s simply not the case. Just because something can happen doesn’t mean it will happen. One’s significant other can step out onto the street and get hit by a car, yet one doesn’t chain them indoors because of this.
the_marq and others that see insecurity as a weakness,
It is precisely because there is a risk of loosing your loved one that they feel so special. If you had a guarantee that they will stay with you no mater what then a relationship would be meaningless. It’s one of those - without the bad there can be no good – kind of situations.
I fear loosing my girl. I am jealous of other guys. I know I would be terribly heart broken and probably go a tad berserk if my girl cheated on me. I am aware of all the risk, but I would rather stick my neck out then stay with a person I cannot trust. The value of trust outweighs the risks involved.
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