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Originally posted by denim
What sort of external assurance would satisfy you?
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Well that is just my point, there is no such thing.
Now don't get me wrong, there is a huge chasm between; being vaugly worried that she is going to walk out on me, and stalking her to bars when she meets friends.
Furthermore, insecurity is a character flaw, I acknowledge that (and lucky for me someone loves me regardless of this), and no matter how many times I (we, whatever) are reassured it is going to persist. Telling someone like me to "Get over my insecurities," is about as effective to tell me to "enjoy liver and onions." Sorry, some of us are just not wired that way.