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I should add to my post earlier that though hubby and I went for a while where I really didn't want sex with him at all - Now the story is different.
What made the difference is communication. I expressed to him how I felt about being pushed, how I felt tired, and didn't feel like I could trust him. My lack of trust wasn't all his fault either. It was a combination of other people, hubby and my own suspicions and imaginations. Eventually he won me over and I know I would trust him so much more now. He also is willing to give me my space when I'm not feeling good or up to sex or even just in the mood. He's learned that one time when I'm not interested and he pushes ruins it for me the next time too. A girl wants to feel free to have sex or not. Now I'm also on different birth control pills and my libido is much better. Almost anytime hubby asks or gets me going I'm already interested in sex. There is hope. Listen, Talk, and be patient. Also may I suggest checking out the medication avenue. There's lots of things that can affect libido.
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