I can't understand why someone would be in a monogamous relationship with someone they couldn't trust. Isn't that one of the fundamental things you need? Unless you keep a woman locked in the house 24/7 and nobody rings the doorbell, she will see other human males. Most likely, she will find some of them attractive. If you can't trust her not to act on that attraction, why would you be with her in the first place? For those of you who have bi or bi-curious girlfriends, are you afraid of them having female friends, or is there some sort of immature hope in the back of your mind that you'll end up with a threesome because of it? Do you think It's OK for you to have female friends?
Changing subjects, the Ladder Theory is complete and utter bullshit spewed out by a guy who is bitter about not being able to fuck any woman he sees and can't accept that men can be friends with attractive females without spending every second making surreptitious attempts to get in her pants.
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