Actually, that isn't exactly true. All of the girl-guy friendships I've seen were either guys wanting to have sex with the girl, or not being attracted to her and wanting to get with her friend. However, this isn't necessarily a constant.
The main flaw in psychology is that the vast majority of people aren't satisfied. Almost all theories are muddled by the horniness of the subject and the psychologist himself. Sex isn't naturally intertwined with everything we do. It's just so hard to come by that we end up devoting most of our lives to it.
If I had a girlfriend and was fully satisfied, I could be the friend of a girl who I wanted to be friends with.
There are two main problems with this:
A. I don't have a girlfriend, and even if I did I probably wouldn't be satisfied.
and
B. I haven't met any girls that I actually wanted to be friend's with.
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