I feel the need to bring up a sociological theory here. Perhaps it can clear up some of the misunderstanding in this here issue.
The Master Ladder theory goes more indepth at this link. If there is no attration it explains the ladder, if the male is more attractive than the female but still attractive it'll be explained there too!
http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html
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IF A MAN FINDS A WOMAN ATTRACTIVE THEY CANNOT BE FRIENDS.
Many women want to argue this point and say things like " I have lots of guy friends." Maybe. There are exactly 3 cases Intellectual Whores has identified whereby a guy and a girl can be friends:
1. The guy is gay
2. The guy does not find you attractive.
3. The guy already has a woman more attractive than you on the ladder (for explanation of the ladder go here: http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html )
Even Nietzsche knew this. Most guys know this intuitively. Most girls doubt. I have a challenge for all of you girls who still doubt. Pick a guy who does not meet any of the criterion on the above list that you think is your friend. Then ask yourself this question: If you were both alone at his place one night, and you excused yourself to the bathroom and came out naked and asked him to have sex with you would he:
1. Tell you he doesn't want to risk the beautiful friendship you have created with messy physical entanglements.
2. Comply
Remember this only works if you are honest with yourself. Number one is of course something that guys hear all the time. Intellectual Whores refers to it as the Kiss of Death. It is more likely that he will jump you eagerly.
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