Would only be willing to do that with a regular partner whose health I trust (blood makes me extra nervous re: disease).
With my current girlfriend, she's not always in the mood, depending on whether the month is a bad one for cramping and not feeling so hot. But other than that, it never even really considered much of an issue.
The first time with her she said "I'm on my period..." with a query in her voice to which I replied "I don't care if you don't. I understand if you don't want to though." to which she responded only with action. After that, aside from a notification from her so we don't ruin the furniture or bedding, it never really enters our thoughts as an issue.
We get a laugh when we're done and I look like a horror flick victim, though.
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