I don't understand the problem... if she doesn't value your relationship, she'll cheat on you regardless of male friends or not.
If she truly loves you and respects you, there won't be a problem. If she values the relationship, you could even leave for a month straight and have a male friend of hers LIVE with her and there wouldn't be a problem.
If she cheats on you, it removes the facade of a relationship that you thought was perfect, but wasn't. From there, you can move on. Would you rather waste years of a relationship only to find out later that she may cheat on you anyway?
Be less restrictive. Trust her. If she cheats, oh well, move on.
Being overprotective solves nothing.
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