Two things:
1. If your girl is unhappy with you, she is going to dump you. It doesn't matter whether she's got another guy lined up in the wings, although it might encourage her to get off the couch and do it, rather than stringing you along (which can only be a good thing, imho).
2. If you restrict her friendships, that is a surefire way to make her unhappy with you, bringing about circumstance 1.
If I were you, I would let her know how valuable she is to you and how much you love and need her, and leave it at that. She can, and will, make her own decision about whether she gives a shit.
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