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Originally posted by the_marq
Going for lunch is one thing, I'm fine with that my GF does it regularly with a guy who I have never met. I have been invited to meet him for lunch a couple of times but never had the time.
Dinner and movies? That's a date man. If I knew the guy I might be ok with it, but the fact is; even tho it's just a friendship to her, you (having not met the guy) have no way of know what he his thinking. Guys steal girls from other guys all the time, hell I did it half a dozen times before I settled down.
Meet the guy at the very least to find out if he is trying to poach your gf, if for no other reason than to prevent an awkward situation for your girlfriend.
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That's the thing... you're lookin at this all wrong. You gotta think outside of the box and look at it from another point of view.
If your girlfriend is quick to be "stolen", then she's not really a good girlfriend, is she?
It's NOT the man's fault if he "steals" the girlfriend away. It's ultimately HER choice to do so.
If someone "stole" my girlfriend, fine, more power to them. Would I be upset? Sure, but overall I'd be glad I was no longer wasting my time with someone who didn't want to take me seriously.