maleficent

Almost all of my life, all of my closest friends have been male, the friendships have all tended to be realer than the aquaintences I've had with females.

I stood up for a very good friend when he got married, that's how close the friendship was, not sure the maid of honor was too thrilled about it, but it wasn't about her. The bride accepted his friendship with me, and still accepts it.

In the movie, When Harry Met Sally, the assertion was made that men and women could not be friends because sex gets in the way, I'd call bullshit on that, you have relationships with people, as long as you get to know the person, sex is not an issue.

Has she ever given you reason not to trust her? These are friends. Don't make her choose, because you may not like her decision, the friends were there before you... accept those friends... ask to meet them, not to judge them, but if you like her, and she likes them, then you'd probably like them too.

She's chosen you for her boyfriend, she's chosen them for friends, isn't that showing good sense? Trust her.

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