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Originally posted by Magpie0001
Im just corious & tell me to go jump if this is too personal but what reasons are there to be celibate other than spirutal or religious ones?
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During my heavy drinking days I knew that sometimes when I was out drinking that my judgement would not necessarily be the best. I decided after waking up next to someone (I didn't sleep with but would have regretted had I,) it would be better for me to decline any offers from any women.
I didn't want to be worried about HIV/AIDS, someone coming up to me saying they were carrying my child. I wanted to be as responsible as I could and the only way I could insure that was to be 100% celibate.
During the first month which was the hardest, women literally stripped and jumped out of their clothes trying to bed me. I declined some very beautiful women. In the end I still think that I made the right decision for myself.
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Originally posted by ninety09
Well, for my girlfriend, it's because she wants the first time to be very special. She wants us to do it for the first time on the night of our marriage, on a bed of rose petals, surrounded with candles, etc.. Just like a fairytale...
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Wow.. that's some pretty large things to live up to... I remember after my wife's first time, she was like,"That's it? That's the big deal about sex?" and I had to tell her that it gets better once you relax and enjoy yourself. Now she likes it much much better than her first time.
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Last edited by Cynthetiq; 05-07-2003 at 11:37 AM..
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