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Originally posted by iccky
I hate quoting hard core consevatives but Robert Bork said something interesting, "A pornographic society is not one that produces pornography, it is one that thinks about sex in a pronographic manner." Do you think about sex in a pornographic manner?
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A very nice quote and a very true one as well. I found myself slipping into the pornographic view of sex and relationships. Yet pornography reflects society. So I suppose I found myself slipping into the mainstream view of sex and relationships. To say the least, it was very bad for me. Not because it ruined my relationships but because I felt very empty and somehow used.
I still look at porn here on the TFP. I gota admit that about 99% of all the content does nothing for me anymore. Porn stars are a total turn off for me. Most other sets just don’t do it for me because they look so phony. I am also starting to think more when I look at porn, and most of the time I cant help but think of what the girl would actually be like and whether she is being used or has been suckered into taking her clothes off – a line of thought that almost always leaves me disgusted.
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Originally posted by dancergirl
What do you guys think if you and your SO have a very active sex life and they still want to look at porn whenever you are not around. Does that seem weird or is that normal?
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I was doing this in all my past relationships. It's a pretty common thing. I think the motivation from this comes from habit. Before the relationship, you think sexy thoughts and you jack off, usually with stimulation from porn. When you are in a relationship you think sexy thoughts even more often and you do the old routine. To make it a little easier on you girls that worry about this - when guys look at porn they will often supper impose the image of their GF onto the porn they viewing. Another words they just use porn to stimulate their imagination. They look at porn then picture their GF doing the same thing and then relieve themselves to that image.