Is this behavior new? Nope, she's always been this way. She's always been the type to lash out because things aren't going her way. I remember how she would come home from school bitching the second she got in the door. Use the "I'm having a bad day" excuse. Well, that's all fine and dandy, but what did I do to you?
My niece turned 2 in March. Her father isn't really in the picture. He lives not very far away, maybe a half a mile. She goes over usually on Saturdays to visit, most of the time her Dad isn't even there.
I'll be alright. I'm worried for my niece and my parents. I don't think my sister would ever do anything to her kid, but having a mother who is constantly yelling and such, that's not any good either.
You're right about my parents though, I don't want to punish them because my sister is an asshole. I still want to see them of course. I'm sure eventually things will be okay. But right now I'd rather just stay away from her.
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