hey, i´m belle. i have a question and hope this is the right place for it.....

well my b/f and me have tried it through the backdoor, everything went well because we took much time for it.. i am new to this and confused but still attracted by ti so i have to ask someone who has "experience" with it.... first, how do yuo clean yourself before?????
second, do you let him come inside??is this healthy or not or does it feel disgusting???
Plz help me but please be serious!!!! thank u!!!!
