Ask first. I have had buddies who go out with an ex of our other buddies (after asking) and been with them for a long time. I even had a friend who messed around with my ex of 4.5 years. Now I wish he had asked (but don't really care because they just hooked up not dated) but my theory is that if it didn't work out for me doesn't mean that it wont for you.
This being said, I sincerely believe that if I had an ex who totally screwed me over and the breakup was very very bad and drawn out it would be a totally different story.
Be vewy vewy carefulllll /elmer fudd
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Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it.
--Mark Twain
Do What makes you happy
--Me
BUT!
"Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu
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