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I hate to say this but while its nice to be needed like that, I believe (from my own experience) it will be impossible (or at least very very difficult) for her to really move on from this if she is relying on you to make her happy. I don't know how many times me and the ex fought and I ended up saying "It's not fair that I am responsible for your happiness." If she becomes dependent on you then changing and (if it comes to this) getting out of the relationship will be 100% harder.
All I am saying is be very very careful about her only being happy when you're around. In my opinion, thats really not a good thing.
Basically I am echoing what you said in the last paragraph of your last post.
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Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it.
--Mark Twain
Do What makes you happy
--Me
BUT!
"Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu
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