Arsenic7

She is 19 I am 21. Therapy is difficult precisely because we are so young and college students.

She actually has been in more sexual relationships than me. She is almost my first (I only had sex one other time before that and she wasn't a girlfriend) and she has had two sex partners that lasted more than a year along with several guys she has "teased." She's had some odd things happen to her but has no memories of being abused as a child or anything. She says she has some amnesia due to a bad car accident which I can believe but sometimes she blows things out of proportion in these regards. She's a worry wart and a few times when we talked about our sexual problems she mentioned that she wondered if she was abused and couldn't remember it (she grew up not really knowing her father well at all, but he was around when she was very young.)

Edit: she has some small trust issues because both her long term relationships ended in cheating. Sometimes she compares me to them which is annoying but I try to understand that they were a large part of her life. Probably the most hurtful thing recently is that when she is trying to get into it and can't she has a tendency to either blame or insult me someway, like saying "if only you were bigger" (my size is perfectly fine, trust me) or snapping at me. Obviously this does little to help ME get in the mood.

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