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How old are you two? If you two are grown adults then the fact that she has yet to explore herself sexually seems a bit weird - there's nothing wrong with that but it seems a bit unusual. However, the fact that you had sex that caused her pain and she didn't do anything to stop you is a very big red flag to me.
I've been in this same situation before and the person I was with was that way because of issues that had happened when she was a child and relationships she had gotten herself into. I'm not saying this is the case but it sounds to me like there could be some water under the bridge (whatever that expression means). In any case, you two need to talk this out fully and if she can't do that comfortably with you then I'd suggest some therapy.
Good luck.
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