It sounds like his priorities are just elsewhere right now - paying off credit cards, getting on his feet, etc. I'd say if you really really like him, give him some time. Go out with friends, focus on yourself, let him know you'll be there when he gets his life in order. But if you have doubts, I'd say give him fair warning that you want a relationship, but you're no longer exclusive.
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